I’ve been having trouble giving myself a break; I’ve been pushing myself to be productive, to the point that I’m not able to be productive. So I’m going to try a new setup: I’ll have a list of activities that I want to engage in every day (for the current stage) and a minimum amount of time and a maximum amount of time for each one. This might help.
Job Search: 1-3 hours
Apartment Search: 30-120 mins
House Sale: 30-120 mins
Other Work: 30-60 mins
Recreation: 1-3 hours
Totals: 3.5 – 11 hours
Does that make sense? The max is only 11 hours… doesn’t that leave too much blank time in a day? I don’t know…
try making a list of values, what your values are, what brings you the most meaning, what experiences bring you the most menaing in your life, love, success, money, sex, physical well being, what is it you value the most, then from this list of values translate them into what you want ot experience the most everyday, and then from that, translate it into goals, I think you will find you are a lto happier and have a lot more energy and it will be a lot more natural.